In her last article, Style Guru, Melanie Elturk gave brides-to-be a few tips on choosing wardrobe for an engagement session. This time she’s here to help groom the grooms.
Now we understand that some guys know what works for them (kudos to you!). But for those who don’t, for the frustrated fellas who give-up and hand off the wardrobe decisions to their wife-to-be, read on for Melanie’s advice.
Take it away, Melanie….
“Preparing for your engagement shoot can be stressful, (location, theme, outfit(s?). The last thing you need to worry about is what your fiancé will be wearing. Read on for some helpful tips on how to dress your man for your engagement session, that is, if he doesn’t have his digs picked out already!
- Seeing Double
One thing you want to stay away from is looking too match-matchy. The key is to compliment each other rather than looking like twins. If you wear a killer dress and stiletto’s, be sure that his ensemble is in line with your dressed up look – slacks and a crisp collared shirt is a great choice. Similarly, if you’re dressing down in jeans, be sure his look is also dressed down, yet polished.
While you may have the perfect vision of what you want your engagement shots to look like (40’s pin-up anyone), keep in mind that your fiancé has to dress the part too. Be sure to talk out what you want your theme to be, if any, with your fiancé and make sure he is comfortable wearing the chosen duds. If your fiancé feels uncomfortable (in his bowtie and Cary Grant hair-do), it will translate into your photos. It is also a good idea to be sure your fiancé has worn the chosen outfit at least once prior to the shoot.
Is your fiancé sporting a new goatee that you secretly want to shave off in his sleep? Or do you love his scruffy “I haven’t shaved in three days” look? Talk to him and see what he’s willing to do (or not do) for the photographs. Remind him that these pictures will live on beyond the Beiber hair craze and a great haircut might not be a bad idea!
- Have fun!
The most important thing to remember is to have fun. Regardless of what you’re wearing, the ability to kick back and relax during your shoot is crucial. A comfortable ensemble that exudes confidence is the best way to ensure you can relax while Karen snaps away! You’ll be in great hands with nothing to worry about, have fun with it!”